There is something magical in receiving and keeping something handwritten. It feels like the energy of the person is palatable on the paper along with their words. Unlike the uniformed letter formation of the typed word, handwriting is unique. Each person has a particular way of crafting the letters of each word and the sentiments of their writing is theirs alone.
When my husband and I were newly courting we were living apart. He had moved to his next Air Force posting and I was in my final months of university completing my Education degree. During that time we maintained connection through handwritten letters. Our words contained delightful offerings of our love for each other and our plans for our future together. I wish I had kept these letters as they would have been a constant reminder of our initial love and connection.
Handwriting is more connected to the movement of the heart.
Natalie Goldberg
My father loved carrying a notebook with him. All the important things he wanted to remember running his business were written inside. I remember the small notebook and a pen were always placed in his shirt pocket handy for the next time it was needed. They were faithfully returned each time his shirts were laundered. At the time of his death we decided to place a fresh notebook and pen with him in his coffin just in case he found something profound to add.
Thankfully, I do have examples of his distinct handwriting as I do my mum’s recipe notes which are cherished reminders of my parents. I also have old bibles with the handwriting of a grandfather I never met. Enclosed in his handwritten notes are his reflections on the scriptures and evidence of his strong faith. In his handwriting I have a window into his soul.
The practice of writing – whether in a letter, note or journaling is a beautiful form of reflection. A vehicle to take the thoughts from our mind onto a piece of paper. A valuable reminder of what was important at a particular moment in life. Whether it is something we need as a future reference, a declaration of love or as a practice to clarify our thoughts, the written word becomes a trusted companion – faithfully stored on a physical piece of paper. Each addition allows us to remember snapshots in time and prompts others to have a sense of those moments even when we are no longer here. The physicality of a handwritten note or letter is a tangible reminder of a loved one’s existence.
Writing can chronicle life. Creating a habit of regularly writing is a valuable resource. It allows us to remember and reflect on what is happening in our lives. We can also see how we are changing and growing in our perspectives. When handwritten, our thoughts take on a life of their own. Allowing us to leave a piece of our existence for others to physically hold onto and cherish.
